It has been a little while but we have finally settled down after the move. Or rather, we are settling down enough that I can get back to writing and reflecting a little bit.
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We moved out of our house March 16. We slept in our own beds again May 13. Almost 2 months of living out of bags and sleeping on floors! It was quite an adventure. Please Please Please do not think that we were having a hard time. It seems as though we did not suffer at all.
One of my objectives for the trip was to spend some time together as a family and see if we could strengthen some of relationships. There are some wounds in my kids that I have caused and I wanted to see if I could spend those months trying to reconcile their little hearts to mine.
It seems to have worked well. Now that I understand the hearts of my older kids a little bit better, we were able to connect in a more deliberate manner. My oldest daughter, the introvert, would sit next to me for 6 hours at a time. It was most comfortable for me to ride with my right arm resting across the seat-backs, and so my hand would rest on her shoulder. We wouldn’t talk about much, but the moments we did spend talking were precious.
Sleeping on the floor wasn’t bad either. We got to stay with family, friends, friends who are family, and family who are friends. All in all it was such a great trip. Spent time with a range of people like folks that my wife and kids have never met and that I have dearly missed (Thanks for the grape juice bro!), as well as family that we saw last Christmas.
And now we are here.
I have a lot of butterflies in my stomach right now. It feels like tomorrow is the first day at a new school… probably because it is. I’m more excited than I am nervous or anxious. I do wonder if I have what it takes. I’m not so concerned about graduating, I wonder if I have what it takes to actually be the sole medical provider on a submarine.
I’m sure it will be fine.
My soul rests as I wait.
Thanks for being patient with us as we travelled.
Thanks so much too for letting us sleep on your floors!! I cannot think of a better way to explore this great nation of ours!!
Until next time…
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Maybe not alluring to those who live here, or have been here, or have even heard of this place, but to the 6 of us vagabonds covering almost 2300 miles in the last 6 days… Alluring is what it is.
The allure of stopping the madness for a week. The allure of spending time with people we dearly love and missed for so long. The allure of letting our kids run around and play in the sunshine. The allure of eating regular food served at a dinner table. The allure of eating in restaurant which has actual wait staff instead of a line with a billboard menu and a cash register.
Do not get me wrong… I LOVE the road trip life. I love conquering the miles, pulling a heavy load, and seeing the gorgeous land of America pass me by.
But there is something that magically adds to the allure of a place like Altus when sitting in the tiny little control space of a “slow,” heavy, missile travelling for so many days.
My wife and kids have been doing so well. They have been handling the stress of the trip so much better than I have. My wife has staged all kinds of stuff all over the cab of the truck in order to keep the kids safe, clean, and entertained. The older 2 actually do some of their school work while riding. This picture shows her door. When looking at the cab from her side, the entire truck is stashed with tools at the ready.
The truck is still doing really well. We are at the halfway point of the trip and I’m praying that we do not end up stranded before we get to Groton.
My little introvert really enjoys sitting next to me for the long hours, just sitting. We talk about very little, but she enjoys it quite a bit. She sits there and looks around and draws in her notebook. Good Times.
I have not had much exercise for the duration of the trip, so I went for a bike ride this morning. I have never ridden my bicycle in a flat area. I felt so good this morning on this flat ground! It was like I was riding lightning!!
We are staying on an Air Force base right now and there is a jogging/biking path around the flight line. While I was riding on the far end of the base, several C 17s took off right by me. It made me feel so fast!! There I was, pedalling with all my might, a steady Oklahoma wind in my face making me feel like I was doing 60, and the sound of those massive jet engines… In my head it was all me… a little red Cannondale jet rocket screaming across a bike path on the plains!
It is good to be off the road for a little while.
Thanks for reading.
(Another picture from the Pacific Northwest… man am I going to miss that place)
We made it to Colorado Springs without incident. We had such a great time in the Salt Lake City area that we decided to stay until after lunch before beginning the trek east.
We pulled into “The Springs” (as the locals call it) a little after 0100. Our hostess was more than gracious. She stayed up until we got there just to greet us. It really is pretty awesome having such a large number of people who love my family and I.
Truck is still doing really well. I have been playing around with an aftermarket monitor so that I can watch different parameters in the engine and transmission as I drive. This thing is a sheer beast. Did almost 10 whole miles per gallon between Salt Lake City and Colorado Springs, but I managed a pretty steady 75 the entire trip!! Not bad sir, not bad at all.
Got up this morning and had breakfast at a castle. That is correct… a castle. The Navigators national headquarters and conference center are in Colorado Springs. The conference center is actually an entire estate which was established by General Palmer. He also established several of the communities around Colorado Springs. He built a castle for his wife tucked away behind some really pretty rocks right next door to the Garden of the Gods.
The kids loved walking around the castle and I should have known the outcome before I asked if they wanted to eat breakfast there the next morning… obvious yes.
So we started that day later than I would have liked, but the kids did get to eat a royal breakfast.
… and what do kids eat for a royal breakfast when they have so many choices?? You guessed it… Fruit Loops!! Of all the options, fruit loops for the win!
Irony I guess.
It was a good time in The Springs.
Next Stop… Altus Oklahoma
We had a great time in Portland. I have a couple good friends there and it was great seeing them before getting back on the road again. I essentially got to debrief our time in Washington. I’ll be thinking about that place for a long time.
We hit the road at 0400 and pushed on to Lindon, UT. We are staying with a friend of mine from my first duty station. I had planned on showing up, going to sleep and hanging out a bit the next day before departing for Colorado Springs. We ended up sitting up until 1 AM talking about our kids and looking at old souvenirs from Okinawa.
Before leaving Portland I had a weight distributing hitch and sway bar installed for the trailer. It took a little bit of custom fabrication since my trailer is made of “I” beam instead of box beam or “c” channel. The trailer pulls with almost no swag or sway. Awesome!!
We averaged right at 8 MPG for the drive yesterday. Part of me wants to blame my transmission and have it looked it, the other part wants to be proud since I am pulling such a heavy load up and down some pretty intense mountains.
Speaking of mountains…
Jessica and the kids were asleep for the majority of the drive from Portland to Boardman. The road we were on follows the Columbia River as it borders Washington and Oregon. It was very quiet and peaceful while the kids slept and the sunrise painted the sky as I drove east along the river. So amazing.
It finally started to set in that I am leaving the Pacific Northwest. I’m really going to miss Bremerton. I’m really going to miss the people that I got involved with while living up there.
Several friends have let us know how much they miss us and love us. I can hear the ache deep within their hearts as they express their love for me and my family. I identify with them completely. I have that same ache for them and for my little corner of Washington State.
What is really cool for me is that I have felt that same kind of ache for so long for the family that developed for me in North Carolina. For the better part of 5 years now, I have had a deep longing and a squelched affection for my family in North Carolina… as well as Oklahoma, Texas, Louisiana, and Tennessee.
As I drive down this road, my heart breaks for the people we are leaving while simultaneously erupting with great joy that I will finally be able to see the other side of my family again.
I am a torn man!
I do not regret having lived in Washington. On the contrary I am so very glad that I had the opportunity.
I do not regret leaving Washington. I am happy to have made the friends I made and have had the opportunity to leave a bit of my life behind with them.
I guess this is just one of the bags the vagabond carries.
Washington (and my people there)… I will miss you dearly.
Colorado, Oklahoma, Texas, Louisiana, Tennessee, Georgia, North Carolina, DC, and Maryland (and my people there)… Stand by!! I’m en route!!
To my unknown friends in Connecticut… Brace for impact!!
(The kids wanted pictures with our crowns)
We made it to Portland.
We got started about 6 hours later than I planned. We had more to load into the suburban than I had planned, but all in all, things went well.
I got almost 13mpg as an average from Seattle to Portland, but I held a solid 72 for the vast majority of the trip. I felt so proud. I also discovered that driving around 65 will get me right at 15mpg, so I think I’ll slow down for the rest of the journey.
The trailer pulls fine as long as there is no wind and no bumps or turns. Add any of those things, and that trailer gets unruly quick. I’ll be looking for a different hitch set up in the morning to see if I can negate any of that. Might look for some airbags too.
Stopped for a supper at a place called “The Burger Claim“. This place is outstanding!! They buy their meat in steak form, they grind it themselves, and they make fries from actual potatoes just like 5 Guys Burgers and Fries. They also give a 15% military discount. Food was outstanding. Not only are the burgers fresh and tasty, they used shotgun shell Christmas lights in the dining area. Tacky… Check. ‘Murica… Check.
If any of our Washington military friends are looking for a short little family vacation, head down to the Great Wolf Lodge. It is an indoor water park and “The Burger Claim” is right next door. Or if y’all are driving from Seattle to Portland or vice versa, this place is pretty much dead center.
I am really worn out. A lot of stress from today has really taken a toll on me. That trailer getting twitch and swimming down the road took a lot to keep in my lane. I really hope I can figure something out before we start crossing the mountains into Utah and Colorado. I really don’t feel like killing anybody on the road in the next few days.
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I am so sorry that it has been a while since my last post. We are SUPER busy right now getting our lives to a point that we can move from Bremerton to Groton. Transplanting this family of mine is no simple task.
The packers showed up and made quick work of getting our stuff ready to go. They were friendly enough and got right to business. They moved so fast that they were able to go home right after lunch each day. Awesome!!
Maybe not so awesome… They completely missed a cabinet full of towels and wash rags, all of our eating utensils, and several other items. Those things would have filled 3 or 4 boxes. All in all not too bad, but I would expect that packers actually pack all the stuff.
I really appreciated their professional manner and the speed and intensity with which they worked. I really appreciated how much wrapping material they used to protect my stuff. I did not appreciate at all the lack of follow through.
I find myself often telling my kids that they need to have some speed and intensity while doing their chores. Folding clothes, unloading the dishwasher, cleaning their rooms, do these things quickly and with focussed purpose. But in the end of the day, it does not matter to me how the job got done as long as it is done. I would prefer quick, focussed, professional, efficient, etc., but thorough is a not negotiable.
Jessica is doing great with this move so far. She really does have a gift for managing so many things with such efficiency. We are both “dropping the ball” frequently with some of the smaller things, but so far we have completed each task which needs to be completed by the required time.
The kids have gone through some pretty wide ranging emotions. We let them come into the house for a couple minutes each day that it was being packed and loaded so that they can experience the transition. I was hoping that it would be less of a shock to them if they got to see the process instead of just leaving the house one day like normal and returning a week later and seeing it completely empty.
A couple of them cried when they saw their stuff in boxes.
All in all we are doing really well. The house is packed up. The movers have loaded all of our goods and we are preparing to get underway in a week.
We will see some of you on the road next month!
I really will try to keep these little, short posts rolling pretty steadily throughout our move.
Thanks for following us in our adventure.
We hope to be wheels hot no later than 0800, 01APR2014, en route to Groton, CT.
We also hope to still be on speaking terms with each other, well rested, well fed, and excited to start the drive from one side of this great nation to the other.
And by we I am referring to my wife, my kids, and me.
I will be going to school for a little more than year in Groton in order to become a Submarine IDC. An IDC is an Independent Duty Corpsman. A Corpsman is a beastly creature composed of the essential elements of power, strength, and intelligence with a side helping of awesome and gliding with a swagger which cannot be duplicated and inhabiting the nightmares of those who would do harm to the Marines and Sailors entrusted to their care. We are a proud breed… maybe I should do a post dedicated simply to that…
Anyway, a Corpsman is a medical “jack of all trades” for the Navy and Marine Corps, most commonly filling the role of a combat medic or hospital nursing staff. After I graduate from the school in Groton (If I graduate), I will be the sole medical provider for the crew of a Submarine.
I am not sure if I am really mature enough to accept the responsibility of the health, the lives of so many men and women in such an austere environment. Talk about a heavy burden of responsibility.
Sooo… between now and a little less than 2 months from now we have a lot to do and a very little amount of time to do it. We need to get our household goods packed up, our house cleaned enough to pass a military cleanliness inspection, close up all the business like things we have going, resolve whatever local tasks are still outstanding, load up our cars, and then punch out.
We plan on Visiting family and friends in Portland, Salt Lake City, Colorado Springs, Altus (Oklahoma), Dallas, Lake Charles (Louisiana), Knoxville, Jacksonville (North Carolina), Washington DC, a little town in Maryland, and then stopping in Groton.
I will try to put up a post and some pictures every couple days during the trip.
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